Thanks again, Oscar

I think this sentence is going to be my motto for the next few years, at least until I finally achieve that independence of the soul that I so badly need. I will also make my beloved mother and father learn it by heart, word by word, sound by sound, letter by letter.
The sentence had to be from Oscar Wilde, of course:
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes"